Tag: goals

  • two hundred and fifty

    two hundred and fifty

    There are many ways to approach a problem, but by far my steady go-to approach has long been incrementalism.

    A little over a year ago I started writing a novel.

    This is actually a complex and confusing anecdote about sitting down to write a trilogy of novels, nearly finishing the first one, deciding that it was actually not a trilogy but just one great big story, then reopening what I thought was a climactic conclusion of my book to instead trudge into the effort of writing another entire novel-worth of story to finish the plot in a meaningful and interesting way.

    The first half took me two months. The second half is approaching a year worth of effort.

    Of course, in that time life has got in the way. I’ve been working, parenting, going back to school, and coding a video game—but I digress.

    The point is that I have been incrementally working towards finishing the novel. I have been writing it two hundred and fifty words at a time. Little steps. Inching closer to completion. Trudging ever forward.

    Is this the ideal approach?

    Heck, I don’t know. I’d like to tell you that I have stumbled onto some great secret of success, but the reality is that slow and steady progress is such an old piece of advice that it literally has it’s own spirit animal in the tortoise.

    Each day I sit down and write (at least) 250 words, one word at a time, one keyboard stroke at a go, all to add onto my novel. Each day I incrementally move slighty closer to the end. Each day I am 250 words closer to being done.

    My point is that some problems and projects are just big and there is no quick and easy fix.

    My fix, neither quick nor easy, is to write two hundred and fifty words each day. Like a tortoise in a foot race.

  • little experiments

    little experiments

    Goals are out.

    Experiments are in.

    I was listening to a podcast a few weeks ago and an interesting idea was suggested by one of the guests. We have these big ideas about goals and resolutions and accomplishments, but maybe we’re wrong about all that. Thinking about self-improvement or personal projects as zero-sum must-achieve-end-state goals may be leading a lot of us to premature notions of failure.

    Instead, the guest suggested, we should be thinking about these things as experiments.

    Rather than saying “I’m going to blog every weekday, forever.” maybe we should be saying something like “I wonder how many days in a row I can blog before I run out of ideas.”

    The first is a goal that is (probably) bound for failure.

    The second is an interesting experiment in personal acheivement that ends with an answer and some self-knowledge.

    It’s a little mental shift, but a big change in attitude, huh?

  • blogging for bits

    blogging for bits

    I used to blog all the time. You know, back when it was cool—and I was younger—and people still, uh, read stuff.

    I should probably start making tiktok videos, but, well, that’s not my style.

    I had a short but lively online tiff this past week with some guy who was complaining that he lost years of content because he was forced (for politically ideological reasons) to flee Twitter and abandon everything he’d ever posted there. You need your own website, I suggested, one that you contol. He lashed out at me and told me he had his own website but—and I’m paraphrasing here—that the world should just work how he wants it to work, and I could just—well, I won’t repost the rest of his opinions about my opinions.

    I honestly didn’t think that suggesting being in control of one’s own words in this vast and changing ecosphere of technology and politics would be so controversial. Boy, was I wrong.

    Yet, it did get me thinking that I haven’t been holding up my end of the bargain there, either. I’ve been writing… a lot. But I stuff those words away onto sites off the beaten track, or put disposable discourse into social media, these days Bluesky. I’ve been neglecting the simple blog.

    I’ve been neglecting just writing for the sake of writing.

    So. Here I am. Back. Simple. Just posting. Let’s give this a whirl again.

  • resolution

    Now that the big day is come and gone, we can start thinking about wrapping up 2023.

    For me, 2023 was a huge year. Job change, life change, new roles, big accomplishments, travel, upsets, stumbles, achievements beyond belief and deleting hundreds of little things from my life. I had given myself the back half of the last year to figure things out after which I’d pretty much felt certain that life would start to make a bit more sense.

    It doesn’t, of course. But the calendar is about to turn over and…

    It’s not a wonder at all that I’m eagerly pondering 2024.

    The new year is often a time of making resolutions, kicking off new projects, or setting big goals. I usually do that, and usually I stick with a few of my resolutions and find myself in a very different place at the change of the calendar twelve months later. This year is not much different, but those changes are motivated by the events of 2023, the events of the year past almost as much as a resolve about the future.

    Maybe things will make more sense in 2024. Or maybe not. But we can resolve to hope so and aspire to find out, right?